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Hello Again

Hey everyone. Once again I’m writing after a several month hiatus, BUT once again I really don’t have an excuse other than I’ve had no energy or desire to post anything. We are all doing well, but I think that 2018 is gearing up to be a crappy year.

Our beloved Grandpa passed away on February 1st from small cell lung cancer. Even now as I type this, it’s hard for me to believe that he’s gone forever. I can still see his smile and hear his laugh and it makes me sad to think about it. He was admitted to the hospital on Jan 2nd and never made it back home. It was a month of absolute hell trying to do whatever I could to find a solution but in the end, I realized that after he was diagnosed, he never had a chance. Looking back, I’m pretty sure he had the tumor while we were in Disneyworld but it wasn’t big enough to give him fits until it started blocking his airway. At this point, I’m still a little bitter about how it all went down but with time I know I’ll come to terms with it.  In the meantime, I try to keep reminding myself that he’s back with the love of his life and free from any earthly cares. And honestly, with everything that’s going on in the world, that sounds pretty good.

We are all doing well…sort of?  I am battling a back/neck/shoulder injury that I just can’t seem to overcome. In January my back and neck seized after spending a horrific day in the hospital watching Grandpa suffer at the hands of amateurs and assholes. I’ve been seeing massage therapist and going to chiropractor regularly but there hasn’t been much improvement. My next options are cupping or acupuncture. If those don’t work I’m not sure what I’m going to do. Tommy, never one to be outdone, is also suffering from back pain. He’s not sure why but he played golf for a week straight (after not playing for a year) while Dad was visiting recently,  so I’m not surprised. Getting old is NOT fun. =(

On another note, we have both turned into workaholics. My contractual job with my boss, Mike, turned into an actual job in his shop and for those who don’t know, we make climbing harnesses for climbing gyms and obstacle courses. I’ve been working as a contractor for him since July of 2013 but started working as part of the crew in  August and I really love it. Mike is a really cool guy and because he owns the business he’s able to let me work around the boys schedule which has been amazing.  There are normally 3 people working there but the other guy (who was there when I started) quit in February and so we’ve been crazy busy with just the two of us. Starting this month, I basically have a full time and a part time job since I’ll be working in the shop during the weekdays and then sewing parts at night and on the weekend. That will only last for about 3 months though, so it’s not so bad. Hahaha!

Tommy is starting to move up the food chain…which of course means lots of meetings and longer hours sometimes. We are learning to adjust. The boys are great and growing like weeds. Henry turned 10 last Friday and is obsessed with volcanoes right now. The recent eruption down in Hawaii made him go into orbit. I would love to take him down there just to see his eyes pop out of his head. =) William is still his stinker self but is now all about the money. He is constantly asking how he can earn it and tries to swindle it out of everyone’s pocket. I reminded him that AZ allows kids to start working when they’re 14 so he only has to wait 7 more years until he can get a job. Believe it or not, at 6 years old he has an incredible work ethic and really impresses us. We’ll see how long that lasts. 😉

We have some big remodeling projects on the horizon! it’s nice having a good second income to blow on stuff like that.  The first is our kitchen. Just yesterday I had a vision of how I wanted to change it, ran it by Tommy, and much to his chagrin he agreed it was a good plan. It’s going to be a big undertaking (kitchens always are) but it will be stunning in end. We will probably start the demolition in the next couple weeks. The other project is an adobe courtyard outside the front patio along with a 3 part adobe wall enclosing the front yard. We will also be changing the driveway and making it a half circle shape so we can just drive through and exit instead of having to back out. I’m sure it’s hard to envision with just this explanation, but trust me – It will look spectacular!

Well, that’s a quick sum up of life right now. I’m not going to promise I’ll get better at posting because at this point, who are we kidding? I hope everyone is doing well and that your year is going good. Happy 100 degree Summer!

High school picture – Such a handsome man!
Little Grandpa
He and his brothers
He and his 2 girls, Patricia and Karen. Look at those glasses!
A young Grandpa and his beloved, Anne. He could be a Kurt Russell impersonator!
Or Burt Reynolds!?
One of my favorite pictures. Grandpa and his eldest daughter Karen on her wedding day.
His antics knew no bounds. This was for Halloween one year.
Don Johnson
A hobo janitor
Colonel Sanders!
He had such a great sense of humor
Miss you Grandpa
A visit from our favorite Peggy Ann, Grandpa’s niece
She is the knitting master and was trying to teach the boys how to make pom-poms.
We had breakfast in her hotel room and hung out all morning. It was wonderful.
Little pupils…
On a snowy train ride in Sedona

 

They made a friend
Well, 2 friends…
Celebrating his 10th birthday eating delicious sushi! (He picked the restaurant, I swear!)
Got his first pair of glasses. SO darn cute!

 

Weekly Round up

We went to a charity walk a couple weeks ago with our friends Martha and Chuck and their kids. It was a lot of fun and the boys loved it. It was for the Make a Wish Foundation and we got to see a child get their wish which was really freaking cool and very humbling. It makes you realize how lucky you are when your kids are healthy. Anyways, the boys spent most of their time on the inflatables and fell in love with Wilma the Wildcat. It was hilarious.

The following Monday we went over and hung out with Grandpa and the family for a BBQ. It was really good to see our long lost brothers and sisters and made me a little sad that I don’t see Joe and Holly very often. I guess as I get older I miss them more (why???Hahaha!)  and when I see siblings get together like this it makes me a little nostalgic. HOPEFULLY that will change in the near future…………????? We will see. =)

Dancing with Wilma
Super cute
The boys with Andi and Adam
Taking a selfie with Chuck.

Trying to break his neck on the slide

William playing Simon Says with Mike and Henry
Our good friend and old neighbor Jack, Richard and Tommy
Karen, Ken and Patricia
Just the girls…and two turds
All of us! Happy Birthday Ken!

 

Ronald McDonald Night

So…after being sucked in to the black hole known as PTA for the last two years, I’ve finally been set free from the depths of Hell!! I can’t tell you how AMAZING it feels to not have to worry about that stuff anymore.  However…my volunteering efforts have not ended and one of them was being chef for a night at the Ronald McDonald house downtown last Friday. My good friend Martha is an angel in disguise and volunteers there on a regular basis. She asked me if I’d be interested in helping out one night and I of course said “yes!”  I never knew much about this place but was told by Martha that they help out families in need who have to stay for long periods of time at hospitals because of treatment their loved ones are receiving.

The house is huge and can accommodate up to 30 families all free of charge for however long they need to stay. ALL the people that work there are volunteers and there are a lot of them. It was very humbling to take a tour of the facility and hear what it has to offer. All the food in the kitchen was donated by volunteers or businesses around town and there was a TON! One of the things we were told was that families really appreciate the fact that they don’t have to worry about buying or preparing food. When you’re stressed to the max taking care of a sick child, the last thing you want to have to worry about is making something to eat. The volunteers are able to at least help ease that particular stress and I think that’s just so awesome.

We started preparing dinner at about 4pm and served it around 6.  We cleaned up and headed home around 8:30pm. All in all it was a great experience and one that I will probably do again. The lesson I walked away with was how lucky I am that I don’t have to utilize services like these. I’m so grateful that my family and I are all healthy. I can’t imagine what it would feel like to have a child in the hospital for a long period of time and have to stay here. Places like this are amazing and can really restore your faith in humanity. =)

Ronald…
Play area for kids
Common living room area for families. There’s a huge TV in here too…
One of the upstairs kitchens that is utilized by the families

The cooking crew! Andi, Martha, Miranda, me, Carrie, Christine, Emma, Katie, Claudia and her son Josh.
Husking some corn

Miranda and Emma striking a pose
Katie and a melon
Claudia getting the buns ready
Carrie cutting up some veggies
Katie working on that melon
Emma and her harp. She played it at dinner that night.
Kate giving us the details about the house and then taking us on tour…
Katie battling the grill. A huge storm was whipping through and the made the flames go crazy
Emma and Judy – the sweetest lady on Earth! =)
Emma playing her harp
The kids making Root Beer floats
Andi and Emma – such cuties
Getting our picture with the man himself!

February Round up…

Instead of posting these individually, I decided to put them all in one.  Enjoy

In early February, Joe decided to race the Tarantula. It’s a race he’s done before out at the red sands in Alamogordo.  The kids and I drove out to cheer him on and had a really good time.

Driving home to NM. I pulled over and got this shot of the moon. This picture does NOT do it justice unfortunately…
The boys all bundled up by Joes bike before he started. It was chilly!
Joe getting his gear on…
Ready to go…
Searching for Joe in the sea of bikes…
Getting ready to cheer!

Unfortunately those are all the pictures I took.  I had the boys by myself and trying to keep them from getting run over by motorcycles was a major feat. It was also pretty windy and we witnessed a horrible crash that kind of tainted the rest of the day. I’m really proud of Joe, but I always worry about his safety during these things. I counted about 5 people total that had major injuries and had to be taken to the hospital but thankfully he finished very well and injury free. I’m excited to hear that he wants to get back into riding competitively and we will of course be there to cheer him on when he does! =)

Our second big February event was the Spartan obstacle race that we ran with our good friends Kim and Dave. They invited us to go last Saturday and it was a blast. It was similar to the Tough Mudder we ran 4 years ago but it was shorter, much warmer and way more fun! It was about 5 miles and was peppered with about 24 obstacles. My favorites were the monkey bars and  rings as those are mine and Tom fortes.  It was definitely suited for people who climb – the only obstacle I failed was the spear throw. It would be different if I were actually trying to kill someone but spearing a hay bail doesn’t really do it for me. Oh well. =) We plan on joining them for another one sometime down the road. In the meantime, my knees have to heal from the running!

Getting in some good carbs before the race.
Me, Kim and her son Ty before the race…
Me and Tommy ready to run!
Team photo right before we took off…
At the very end, jumping over the coals to get to the finish line…
Action shot baby!
Getting a hug from Dave and John
WE. ARE. SPARTANS! =)
Showing off our glam

 

 

Our Roo and his chooks

Well, the year ended on a sad note for our chickens unfortunately! Our silver laced Wyandotte, Bella, died suddenly the day before Christmas Eve. We were up in NM visiting my mom and my sweet neighbor called me and told me she had found Bella dead in the roost. She had been acting strangely the day before – like, completely out of character for her so I was concerned but I never thought she would be dead within a matter of 18 hours. We still have no idea what happened but I have my theories. I’ve been a chicken mama for only 6 months but am starting to realize what a stressful burden it is! Tommy says I care too much about them since we bought them for laying purposes originally but I’ve just fallen in love with the silly things and now am very invested in their well being even though it is an emotional roller coaster! Haha!

There are so many predators around here that we constantly have to be out with them if we are letting them free range. There is a bobcat that comes by at least 2 or 3 times a week to try and attack them while they’re in the coop. I saw him one day and not thinking, ran outside in my bare feet and threw William’s plastic lunch box at him! Haha! We’ve also had a coyote scaling our block wall and mulling around the yard the past 2 days. Tommy said he was just like a cat – jumping up on the wall with ease and then balancing across the top before turning around and trying to take a poop right into our yard! Little shit! We also have hawks all over the place. Our littlest one, Fifi, was almost grabbed the other day by a falcon. Thank God Ozzie was paying attention to the sky and gave her a quick warning  so she could scurry behind the water tank. I swear, it never ends. I’m almost tempted to have Tommy build them a super coop so we don’t have to let them out anymore and worry about them! I don’t know, time will tell. They have been providing a lot of entertainment and delicious eggs but I’m not sure the benefits outweigh the costs. I’m also very weary now of every little thing that happens with them because I’m afraid they’ll just drop dead like Bella did. Gaaaah! Anyway, I’ll keep you all posted on these 3 chooks. Hopefully we can keep them around for another year! Fingers Crossed!

Here’s Fifi getting her scratch on. We’re still unsure of her breed. She’s a sweet girl though and seems to be Ozzies favorite

Here’s Marina, my little red hen.
 My favorite boy. He really is a sweetie and so goofy! He’s still a teenager though and as he gets older, he’ll become more distinguished. =)

He is still going to grow. Our friend told us he’ll fatten up to around 10 pounds!